to do the dirty or not to do the dirty....

[yerburyclos]

I have been with my girl for a while now, she has put a fair bit of weight on over the past few months and i am beginning to look at other, better looking girls. my missus has really let herself go and i am no longer attracted to her and when she asks me if i think she looks fat or ugly i dont know what to say so i walk away. i am tempted to stray just so i can sleep with a good looking girl for a change as it has become routine and unpleasant to do the deed with my girl. this would satisfy the need in me and still keep her happy cos i would still b with her.

[crete]

why are there not more men like you out there you are a great catch and i bet you are really handsome. could we have your e mail address ?

[kissyfur]

Ahh your poor gf. I went through a stressful time and put on loads of weight. I was well aware of it but my bf just said to me that he loved me for who I was not what i looked like. Anyway I have since lost all the weight and respect him so much more for sticking by me. There should be more men like him. Think about if the situation was reversed??

[freak_unique]

well if you ask me you should leave her she'd be a whole lot better off without you and can be with someone who genuinly likes her for who she is...

[yerburyclos]

crete darlin, why would i give u my email address to end up in the same predicament i am in now??
kissyfur, i would never let myself go like that, it shows a complete lack of self respect.

[crete]

dont encourage the pra_

[kissyfur]

But have you thought why she has let herself get this way, there is often a subconsious reason.

[yerburyclos]

am i supposed to pretend that i find her rolls of flab attractive, am i supposed to act like her cellulite excites me?

[yerburyclos]

yes, the reason is that now we have moved in together she has turned into a slob and no longer makes and effort, coupled with the fact that she now eats like a horse

[kissyfur]

Id love to see what you look like

[crete]

did no_ one ever tell you that calling people darlin is stupid just how old are you ?

[yerburyclos]

not like the back of a bus that is for sure. thats her job

[yerburyclos]

yes darlin, they probably did, but i obviously took about as much notice as i am going to take of you

[kissyfur]

Surely this post is a joke?

[yerburyclos]

yes because i wouldnt be able to think of anything better to joke about that how fat my bird has got would i??

[crete]

dot we have a bored teenager on site just humour him

[kissyfur]

Just cant understand how anyone could be so harsh thats all. Have you talked to her about it, suggested you go to the gym etc?. Be honest with her. But to me it sounds like you dont want to be with her full stop.