What do I do? How shall I deal with this?

[mangosam]

My girlfriend means so much to me... we are in love. We are both 16. My family know how much she means to me and we want to get married. But I have a situation, I am stressed and I just feel like killing someone. When I don't go to my fathers house I tend to spend time with my girlfriend on weekends. Both my father and older brother have briefly met my girlfriend but last night I found they have been talking about how they want to be with my girlfriend and **** her, in disgusting and vulgar ways. I have been told by my younger brother they talk about it when I am with my girlfriend on weekends too. I hate them, I hate that they think of that and would talk about it and think there is no problem with it. If I see them I know I will end up kicking thier faces in. I just need advice on this, and how I tell my girlfriend about it all. I hate family and guys in general, I can see why women complain about them so much and I know I am one but I am not a ****.

What do I do... someone please.

[terambulan]

Answers on Family site.....cool it! It's only threats as yet.

[mangosam]

I swear if I see them again I will ******* kill them.

[terambulan]

DONT USE VIOLENCE......you'll get locked up. Keep your girlfriend away from them.

U sure your little bruv got his story right? Maybe he mis-heard or is mixing trouble. Keep cool and alert.

[mangosam]

My brother didnt mishear a thing, I am sure of it. I really gotta focus, I called my father about it all and he was mocking me an ****. I wanna go up to thier house now and kick the ******* in. How do I keep calm

[terambulan]

Dont call them.....keep away from them!

[mangosam]

I will do my best to keep them away from her and I. What do I do when I see my older brother in college?

[terambulan]

Ignore your bruv & father.....they're trying to wind you up. Remember ur gf can make her own decisions about them; her family will be concerned if they make a move on her. It's not just your fight as this will ripple out to others.

Just you chill as she needs your support.

[toptom]

You are both 16, give us a break, you have a lifetime ahead of you.

[mangosam]

yeah thanks for that helpful advice toptom, actually my girlfriend has cancer so we dont have our lives ahead of us.

[onlyme26]

Thats terrible, your dad aswell??? i wouldnt go kicking their faces in tho, well maybe give your bro a slap as that is what brothers are like! but your dad, thats just disgusting that he would even find a 16 yr old attractive!! im sure your girlfriend is attractive btw what i mean is, if your 16 he has got to be in his 30's thats verging perverted!!!

sorry that you have to put up with this, personally id isolate myself from them, after letting them know how disgusting they are!! then let them come to you with a huge apology!!

xx