just split up with girlfriend!

[Daave]

my girlfriend has just informed me that she no longer loves me and wants me to move out!!
then she left for work.


great news on a sunday morning!

anyone else having a nice day so far?

[Eve]

Awwww honey, I'm so sorry :( There's probably not a lot i can say at the moment to make it any better but take care of yourself xxx

[Daave]

not really sure what to do about it,

i dont have anywhere to go!
all my stuff is mixed in with all of hers...

its a really strange feeling.....

does anyone want a lodger? i have a nice pc!!
err, dunno if theres anything else about me that i could advertise as a good thing.... she mainly listed my bad qualitys!

[divegirl]

Hi Daave, is this because you broke her hair straighteners.....lol [sorry]. Maybe she'll feel differently when she gets home, I'd be p*ssed if I had to go to work on a sunday, or did she really mean it? My days not too brilliant, home alone, the kids are at their dads....so it's just me and the housework....oh and my puppy that I'm hand rearing, so I haven't had much sleep either. Look on the bright side, it's only 12.30....the day could get better!!!!

Sending you hugs

Lisa x

[caz247]

i take it it's her place, could you maybe stay with a friend or relative in the short term if it's definetely over. do you guys both just need a break maybe.I know your prob a bit shell shocked just now how long have you been together?
Is she expecting you to be gone when she gets back?

caz x

ps.i'm in glasgow is that too far away as a lodger lol

[caz247]

sorry but the ps is to try and cheer you up
i wasn't being flippant

hugs from glasgow

caz x

[Daave]

to try and answer most of the replies in one go

she knew about the hair straighteners a couple of weeks ago

no its not actually her place..

she works most sundays

yeah she did mean it! "fallen out of love with me"

i dunno if things could get better.. do they do the lottery on sundays?

we've been together for about 2 and a half years living together for just over a year, but the relationship has been a bit like one you might see on a talk show...

dunno if she expects me to have gone before shes back (at 5)



its just started raining!!!!!!!!!


if i move i wont have broadband... damn!!!
and my sky+ will have to go... and ive just worked out how to use all the dials on the washing machine too...... im depressing myself now...




glasgow is a bit far away.. i dont drive so it'd take about 6 weeks for me to walk... and my pc looks heavy

[divegirl]

lol....at least you've still got your sense of humour....

No....no lottery today.

It's raining here too.

.....you know how to use a washing machine!!!!!! Wanna get married....lol

[Daave]

funny you should say that....


but, yeah! i did want to! lol

hey, theres a selling point! great sense of humor and a "really powerful pc with a massive hard-drive"


does anyone know any free dating websites where i can be of no fixed address to join?

[divegirl]

My god......you got over her quick.....hehehehe

[RATTER15]

A massive hard drive!! you know what a woman wants lol you old romantic you!!

Just don't mention the floppy drive!!

Good luck!!

[RATTER15]

Out of interest, what are you calling a really powerful PC?? don't worry I don't want to marry you :-(

[divegirl]

I call mine Johnny....

[RATTER15]

Lol Divegirl, Johnny!! not very inventive, sounds a bit like a condom.

[RATTER15]

Mine was named Houston Control Centre by the guy that built it!!

[divegirl]

Oi....as in Depp....very inventive in my mind......mmmmmmmmmmmm.......the things I could do.....lol....that's another story

[Daave]

ratter..

its not really that good, i just like to think it is!

oi! dont call me old.. im only 25!

[RATTER15]

25 is not old, sorry lol, its OK, I was just asking out of interest, I didn't want to do the "mines bigger than yours" thing lol

I do know your situation, I was there 17 years ago when my first wife announced she didn't love me after 14 years, its not easy but you do come through it.

[divegirl]

...and it's what you become on the other side of it that counts.....me?......14 year relationship....came out a blithering wreck :O}

[PinkFizz]

Hi Daave - what a rotten thing to have happened.
On a serious note - if its not her place but both of yours,tell her that as she doesnt want to be with you anymore then SHE should move out!!

[RATTER15]

Divegirl, Ive done the blithering wreck bit as well and come through that as well, I am know with the woman of my dreams and staying with her.