Text Or No Text?

[EvianBaby]

Me AGAIN!

So, I had (another) first date on Tuesday. Went for a drink with a guy I'd been chatting to for a week or so. Got on really well and had a good laugh. When we left he said he'd like to meet up again and then we texted a bit later on. Said I seemed really lovely blah blah and would really like to see me again. I replied saying yeah me too, blah blah and that I was heading to bed. Not heard anything from him since then.

I do realise that was only the day before yesterday but frankly he was a total hotty and we had loads in common so I'm an eager beaver. But I don't want to be too eager do I.

So, should I wait and see if he gets in touch with me or do you reckon I should make the next move and if so, when?

It's at this point I feel I should remind you that I am in fact 29 years old and not 13 as this question most likely portrays me to be but I've kept this one to myself from friends & family cos I'm tired of having to tell them it's going nowhere again and again so I have to ask you lot. :)

[Bbbananas]

Text him.

[anneasquith]

wait another day, then txt him :)

[AlwaysConfused]

He's probably protecting his pride and waiting for you to message him.

[sunny-dave]

Don't die wondering ...

[EvianBaby]

When people! WHEN!!! ;)

Hey Dave, he's a biker. A real one. He races and everything! Can I get a whoop whoop! ;)

[ummmm]

Text him.

I don't understand this waiting thing. It's only off putting if someone texts too much.

[Sharingan]

Text him today before he makes plans for Friday and Saturday night, I'm not very subtle :)

[anneasquith]

i told you..................tomorrow.

[ummmm]

Whoop Whoop Whoop :-)

[Sqad]

mmmm!........you want an answer from an expert?

If HE is keen he will text you.

Wait.........nothing worse than a woman you don't fancy texting you and putting you even further "off."

[ummmm]

Don't listen to Sqad ;-)

[Sharingan]

If you only text him once it's not a problem, it's a problem if his phone melts because you're texting him every 2 or 3 minutes :)

[Bbbananas]

He's out of date. ;-)

(Sqad!!!)

[EvianBaby]

Ah Sqad, I was hoping you'd respond. :)

To be honest I hate all this waiting crap too. It's stupid. But I don't want to look like one of those people Sqaddles is talking about.

[ummmm]

Like Shar says just text once.

And remember, not everyone is attached to their phones. Mine went dead yesterday afternoon and I've just plugged it in.

[AB Editor]

Wait until 5pm.

[EvianBaby]

Anne, thanks. I think Shar is right though. I need to get in there before before he makes too many weekend plans ;)

Good point Ummmm. Just because mine is surgically attached it doesn't mean his will be.

Any particular reason for 5pm Ed?

[anneasquith]

OMG evi. was it the ed you had a date with ?

[EvianBaby]

I wish, look at that rod on him! *swooon*

[sunny-dave]

I think Ed is living in the past when calls from public phone boxes were cheaper in the evening ...