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I could but if he agreed and really didn't want a "do" he'd sit about like a wet week. He can be a bit anti social, but unlike me he's a quiet soul, doesn't drink or smoke or chase women - he told me once women scare him but I terrify him! - not sure how to take that one! Generally we don't have much in common, but we do complement each other and we started out just as friends, he quietly chased me for years before I let him catch me when we finally started dating we were engaged in 3 weeks and married 6 months later, but we'd be friends for 10 years before getting romantically involved. All we had planned was a quiet evening in with a few friends nothing spectacular, but I think he'd prefer a trip out for dinner and the cinema!