The problem with the cleric's position is that it assumes that we are the only thing that matters; that, somehow, the Universe cares about us. I would make two counter-points.
Firstly, very quickly in its early life the Universe is believed to have got very large and did so very fast. This means that in fact the Universe as we see it, according to most estimates, is not that much more than 1 part in 100,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 of the size of the total Universe. That figure is perhaps a couple of zeros too big and also depends on Inflationary theory being correct, but in practice it means that almost all of the Universe is too far away from us to ever had had or ever have any influence on us whatsoever.
Secondly, even in the Universe that we can see many of the galaxies in the far distance are similarly too far away for any supernoval explosions to have reached us. I mean, we can see some of them, but the matter that follows will travel far slower because it's heavier. I can't really make a realistic estimate of this, but it's likely that at best only galaxies within say 10 million light years of us can have been involved in providing the raw materials for our life. I can't make up my mind if this is a conservative estimate or far too small, because it's off the top of my head -- but you can easily see how such a figure might arise. You need to work out how far a reasonably heavy element can travel in, say, ten billion years at most, given the energy of a typical supernova explosion. It won't be all that far in the grand scheme of things.
What this boils down to is that, even assuming we were the only thing that mattered, the only space that matters to us, that can be important to providing our materials for life, is the tiniest, tiniest fraction of the Universe - both the visible one and, if you believe in Inflation, the "invisible Universe" that is forever disconnected from us. As a result it is certainly wrong to say that the entire Universe was needed for us to be created. And if we were needed to be created, then the rest of the Universe, in the words of Dr. Arroway from the film Contact, "seems like an awful waste of space".