Which Top For Tomorrow?

[abbeylee90]

Pink came today so thought I'd try them on and see which looks better.

https://postimg.cc/N9BhTLXK/cb9269cd

https://postimg.cc/3y90503h/2336b842

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I think you'll have to hold off on meeting up with the latest guy - you'd struggle to pay your way with two men, I don't think your finances are up to it!

PS Glad you have changed your viewpoint on 'giving the guy another date'... just remember, he might not be keen on giving you another one. Things don't always go the way we want...

[barry1010]

It used to be the done thing decades ago when women earned much less than the men doing the same job, before the Equal Pay Act.

These days going Dutch is the norm, unless it's a special treat for birthday etc

[abbeylee90]

Our 2nd date is tomorrow 

[Neveracrossword]

Yes,Abbey, you mentioned that earlier. Have you decided what to do about the newest new guy, the one who suggested meeting up?

[abbeylee90]

Probably won't 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, thanks. Would you be ok if the position was reversed, if your date guy was also meeting up with soneone else? 

[pastafreak]

I didn't know there was a newest new guy...when did that happen??.🤔

[Neveracrossword]

Pasta, 18.47 tonight seems to suggest a new guy on the scene...

[abbeylee90]

Yes it was tonight and it don't matter probably won't meet him like you said we not classed as seeing each other if we only been on one date 

[Moorea7]

Abbey .. men problems!!  You said the guy you met on Friday was lovely so forget about anyone else ..  don't think you can afford to be too choosy😊

[abbeylee90]

Last Saturday yes 

[abbeylee90]

He's been abit quiet today

[abbeylee90]

I haven't heard from him since last night he didn't even message me good night so I'm worried 

[newmodarmy]

Abbey...stop fretting about him not being in touch each night. You had one date and have another planned. Maybe after 3 or 4 dates you'll both know whether it's a more serious relationship.

Some of your posts like 21:22 last night are still difficult to follow and lead to misunderstandings here. Please include punctuation, use shorter sentences and include words like is and are. 

Relax, enjoy your date and be prepared to pay your share of the bill.

 

[abbeylee90]

What I mean is I haven't heard from him last night before bed or when he gets up this morning I wouldn't have thought but be so upset if he changed his mind but didn't want to say 

[newmodarmy]

Perhaps you missed my punctuation suggestion abbey.

Expecting a call before you go to sleep and then an early morning one- after just one date- is expecting far too much Abbey.

[newmodarmy]

...you'd be upset if he didn't want to say what?

[newmodarmy]

Okay, I realise you meant if he wants to call off the date but doesn't  tell you that  he wants to call it off. 

 

 

[abbeylee90]

All I said was he normally messages me first thing and he hasn't even opened my message so I'm concerned 

[Redhelen72]

jeez messaging before going to bed and and when getting up after 1 date?

That's a bit full on - perhaps you are scaring him off?