Have I Blown It With Him?

[Everlyn]

Last week, I started talking to this guy who I've known and been talking to for a few years. We met up in town and went back to his place, and ended up having sex. After we'd had sex I asked if Id ever see him again, and he responded definetly, so he took me home, and said text me. So I did, because Id not heard from him, I kept texting and he awnsered me. But it gets worse, I told him how I felt, and then apoligised if I looked clingy. He instantly replied saying of corse you don't look clingy!, Since then I hadn't heard anything as he's always at work, thinking it was over I text " I know it was a one time thing but you could've told me," Are we still friends?
He saw this, and hasn't responded to any other messages but likes my Facebook Status's. So earlier, I text saying how sorry I was for texting ridiculous amounts, I like him and if he wants to go on another date I'm here. He hasn't seen this message, what do I do? Have I blown it? Need some advice!!

[scorpiojo]

If he's not responding to your messages, let it go.

[Sqad]

\\Have I blown it?\\

LOL....LOL

You met, had a meal (presumably) and then went back ot his place for sex.
Nothing wrong so far.

Is he interested in a meaningful relationship, then you will have to wait and see. Don't make any further contact, as you are "throwing yourself at him" " handing it to him on a plate".......and most men don't take that sort of woman seriously.

[cupid04]

Mens brains are in their trousers.... Forget him!

[ummmm]

Too needy.

[Prudie]

There was nothing to blow was there really. I should think the guy's now scared of you! forget it - if he gets back in touch it would only be for a freebie.

[andy-hughes]

Unfortunately, there are men out there who, if they know a woman is keen, will mistreat her, simply because they can.

If he is interested in seeing you again, he will get in touch. If not, he won't.

Either way, by stopping chasing him you will retain your dignity.

[NoMercy]

For the love of God, don't text him again. Don't post anything on Facebook. Just go completely quiet. If he's interested, he'll contact you.

[Old_Geezer]

Chill.
You are coming across as desperate.

If he is interested he'll be in touch.
If it was a case of taking advantage when it was offered then he'll not be in touch.

Meanwhile concentrate on other areas of your life and stop making this the one thing you concentrate on. If things develop then they will, if they don't make sure you have other interests in life so it's less of a big deal.

[smurfchops]

And if he does get in touch, beware... He might want to just be a Friend with Benefits.

[anneasquith]

Unfortunately when ladies have sex it involves emotions,sadly men ( in casual relations) feel no emotion move on learn the lesson most of us had to.

[Paul22118]

It's over love.

[Old_Geezer]

"sadly men ( in casual relations) feel no emotion"
I don't think that is universally true at all.
Some men, some women, some sexual encounters. It varies according to each.