I work 8:30 to 5:30 with an hour's drive each way and still cook every day, prepare breakfasts and packed lunches for both of us, do all ironing and heavy gardening (we have 4 acres of garden so it is a big job), clean the kitchen and the cars. My wife does vacuuming, other cleaning and laundry but only works 8 til 1. Most people think we are a weird couple because I do such a large proportion of the housework - it works for us, we do what we enjoy or are best at. I certainly object to the slob-husband stereotype which the media outputs.