Khandro - // AH //Rape is nothing to do with sex, it's about power and control.//
Of course it's about sex, - is this another of your crackpot theories ? //
Clearly your obsession with being right about God has narrowed your educational focus to the point where you fail to grasp a fundamental point about sexual crimes of violence.
To answer your question - no, it's not 'another of my crackpot theories' (Oh the irony!!!) - it's the view of the World Health Organsation.
And unlike you, I can actually provide evidence for my view -
https://www.gnesa.org/about-sexual-assault
A concept you have yet to encounter - someone who knows more about something that you think you do.