so if there is nothing inappropriate, and you don't think anything might happn, what's the problem? as i said before i think it's just a symptom of getting older: parents used to think the elvis gyrating was corrupting their children; thatrock n roll music was somehow going to corrupt them but now look at music videos! when your grandson is your age he'll be thinking back in my day, these youngsters didnt do/seethis, just like you are now. it's just the passage of time. What do his parents think? i bet they are not on the same levl of outraged you are