My husband puts it down to flush then lifts it up again - how mad is that? Now we have the kitten it is great as everyone has to leave it down in case she jumps in and drowns. As the only female in the house (apart from the kitten) I feel that I have won a small victory!
I can't say it really bothers me, up or down. What does bother me if there's a splash or seepage (i love that word) on the seat - wipe it off goddammit.
Oleanda - most likely it is people with small boys using the ladies loos that leave the seat up - I used to have to constantly remind my boys to put it down after them when they were too young to go in the gents.
If you get up in the middle of the night to use the loo and don't bother to put the light on, the seat being up results in your bum hitting the porcelain a split second later than you expected it to hit the plastic seat......unexpected, cold, hard, narrow and not nice!
Oleanda - Apparently, some women won't actually sit when using a public toilet, in case they pick up germs from a damp seat or pan rim.. So they merely hunch over the pan to have a twinkle. In such a case, the seat might get in the way, so they raise it and leave it raised afterwards.
jkkerr - exactly. But I never minded this rare occurrence too much till very recently when this happened and I actually went quite a way in and became briefly alarmed....
The next morning I complained to Mr R, who laughed more than a little. But on thinking about it, I was rather cheered that my above average behind could actually 'fall in' at all!
Both the seat and the lid go down before flushing and stay down until next used. I'd rather not have droplets and as Sara says airbourne particles flying around in the same vacinity as my toothbrush!