My sister, when she was a teenager, had two secret abortions, hidden from the family.
Went on to marry the rat bag despite warnings, and had a daughter to him.
Then he began beating her up.
I knew nothing about it.
Dad found out, broke his jaw, put him in hospital and took in my sister and her baby.
To this day my sister suffers for the babies she considers she killed.
She is 68 now and her love.y daughter is 47.
Just thought that might help understanding.