Naomi - I do not doubt you for one moment.
I, too, have often been totally disillusioned with religious people, and their "holier than thou" attitude.
One of the worst was a local vicar no less!
I certainly do not consider myself better than my neighbour, if anything, I am considerably worse.
I subscribe to a certain code of behaviour .... and then I am immediately conscious that I fail to live up to that code.
Does that make me a hypocrite? Yes, most certainly. I try, and then fail, and try again. I even admit to sometimes giving up trying! But, I recognise that the problem is my weakness, not the code of behaviour that I would love to live up to.