can u love

[stylinsam]

can u love more than one person @ the same time!!!!its my mate hes a man and he is married but he thinks that he is in love with somebody else ! this somebody been a man also! iv told him maybe its a phase hes going through hes 23 ! hes only been married a year and half ! i dont no what to say to him! im the only person who nos just thought you guys could help!

p.s my bosses r out so iv sneaked on lol ;oP

[crete]

my suggestion let the wife of 1 year read this question

[B00]

Not sure I read this right....
this man has 3 people on the go? It sounds like he want's the ruddy thing knotting to me.

Why would your friend want to be with someone who appears to have the morals of an alley cat?

[fee-is-me]

As someone with the morals of an alley cat...

Yes, Sam. (Hope you had a lovely holiday!)

I have both a hubby and a partner and i love them both enormously :0)

[crete]

fee is me assume your not too bothered about fidelity then ?

[B00]

Im genuinely shocked....you have both a partner and a husband??? Do they know about each other?

I'm literally gobsmacked fee..............

[stylinsam]

no let me explain my friend mark has a wife mandy but he says he loves somebody else who is a guy whos hes met quite a few times!

[fee-is-me]

'Not too bothered...' ...?

No.

[stylinsam]

and fee my holiday was great thanks for asking x

[fee-is-me]

I'm really glad, Sam. Was hoping you had packed everything. Did you forget anything vital that we can remind you about next time?

:0)

[B00]

Ahhh righty sam, my mistake I read your Q wrong. Still....the very fact he's even looking at other people after only a year and half of marriage doesn't say much does it?

[stylinsam]

no i remebered evrything!! fee thankgod!

i suppose boo i should talk to him properly i have only spoke to him over the phone last night!

[crete]

does anyone else feel they are intruding in a conversation re someones holiday ?

[fee-is-me]

Apologies, crete, if you think i sent the thread in the wrong direction.

I was not aware Sam was back from her hols, and was simply hoping she had a good time as she made the rest of us jealous by going away... !

I was simply being friendly :0)

[stylinsam]

i dont mind honestly im fine with it im very laid back!

[joko]

sounds like perhaps he loves his wife but may not be IN live with her, and probably in lust with this guy.

if he's got married a 22 and now has a fella, his marriage may well have been a desparate attempt not to admit to himself that he's gay.

he has to work out if he is gay and if so tell his wife and let her move on.


you can of course love more that one person, but i suppose you have to decide which one tips the scales

[crete]

no problem,