Could you date a single mum?

[miz_brunette]

I am a young mum (21)of one and i have fortunately found the perfect guy who is willing to raise my son with me as his own as he loves us both very much.

I was just wondering out of the men out there, which of you would be able to take on another mans child without reluctance. Honest opinions please.

[andy-hughes]

Like I always say, my two older girls may have a 'father', but I'm their Dad, and I know which is more important.

[druiaghtagh]

When i met my wife she was a widow of 23, she had 2 children we married 32 years ago and had 2 more children we are still happilt together

[Space]

I met a single mum and lived with her and her daughter for 2 years. The little girl was never a problem, she actually made our couple more stable because I got on really well with her.

[steviep165]

i'm in love with an amazing lady with two fantastic kids, a girl 6 and a little boy who has just started pre-school this week. all three of them blow my mind and i could quite happily spend the rest of my life with them.
i think you'l find that a lot of the female world's opinions about men have been blown out of all proportion in recent times, and that there's a lot of men out there who feel like i do.
i wish the pair of you the best of luck and all the happiness in the world.

[wizard]

I certainly could! I really dont mind the idea of seeing someone who has a kid with another man. The past is the past and you cant change whats been done. Just make the best of it!

Give me a call if your single?!

[Amber1571]

I think the more important issue here, is that when you get to a certain age plus, for example 25 - 30 years upwards, the likelyhood of you meeting a person male or female without children is pretty slim these days. Unfortunately, if you are the one without children and they have children, then perhaps they won't want any more children, so then what do you do, if you want children?

[filthiestfis]

Im willing to date any single mums out there within a reasonable age. No 0ver 28s please!

[mizfiesta]

I think if the guy loves/cares enough for the woman then he would take on any child/children she may have from a previous relationship. It may be difficult for him to begin with - especially if he has no experience of children - but he would be willing to try hard to make it work with the woman. No woman in their right mind should take up with a man who resents her having children and not make an effort to involve himself in the childs life.