my recent ex is gay!!! and the whole time we were together was living with his partner!!!! we are still friends but he doesnt know i know yet..... i want to send him a message of support to tell him i'll be there for him cos i think he is going to get alot of people judging him but i also want to send him a message along the lines of you b@stard... no matter whether it was male or female he was still cheating!! any suggestions how to word my message??
he is your ex, so if you tell him he is a b*****d he may not care and you may stop being friends, but if you tell him you are there for him, he may think what a caring and understanding person you are. but there is no excuse for cheating on somebody. i know of many men who cheat on their female partners not only with other women, but with other men too ! while the cat's away.......