dirty magazines

[Gibbo]

My boyfriend is not the type to keep porn etc, but I recently found a Pabo catalogue (erotic catalogue) in his room. He insisted he was looking through it to find me some sexy lingerie, and I know it was one of his mates who subscribed him to this catalogue years ago, usually he throws them away so it was a bit if a shock to find it. Should I be bothered in any way as I am a little confused of what to think.

[rja211077]

no, you should not be bothered in any way. as you say, his mate subscribed him and he usually throws them away. he just hasn't been bothered to unsubscribe, that's all. if he starts spending inordinate amounts of money on the products within the catalogues, that's when to start worrying.

[Blunderwoman]

Grow up sweetheart. Men being men cannot resist any form of titilation whether it be undie pages in your catalogue or whatever else is getting passed round by their mates. You must have led such a wee sheltered life that a silly knicker catalogue was enough to 'shock' you. So long as it's not some heavy scene stuff, let him have his wee thrill and just get on with htings tthat matter.

[smudge]

That was a bit blunt Blunderwoman! Gibbo is only asking whether she should be concerned & not to be humiliated by you, obviously an EXPERT in this field!

[Blunderwoman]

No Smudge. Im more of an expert in priorities.

[smudge]

Well neither of your replies earned you any *** but have a nice day anyway!

[smudge]

:-)

[andy hughes]

Panic not Gibbo, if your boyfriend was really worried about keeping something from you, he'd hide it! His explanation, assuiming he didn't look guilty, sounds feasible, so it shouldn't be a problem.

[Blunderwoman]

I can imagine that brown-nosing earned you the name Smudge. You have a nice day too my love :-)

[smudge]

No, you're totally wrong - again! The name is in memory of our beloved 'grey' Russian Blue cat Smudge, who died of cancer at the age of 13 years! I just happen to prefer being nice to people, that's the way I was brought up! Bye!

[Gumbo]

I think he should be the one with a bit of concern, what with you sooping round his room :) . If it was hidden then slap on the wrist for you, if it wasn't then I'd be happy with his answer. Even if he had a porn mag thats nothing to be ashamed of.

[Gibbo]

The magazine/catalogue had actually fallen down the back of one of his drawers as the drawer wouldn't close so we both pulled it out to see what was behind it. Bits of paper etc and the catalogue which he said he had even forgot about (which is believable) but that is the reason he gave me (in my question above) for having it in the first place

[smudge]

I would imagine it's quite a natural thing for men to peruse the sort of mag's you describe. It doesn't mean your boyfriend doesn't love or care about you. I'd feel more inclined to worry, if it were mens bits he was interested in! Hope you feel a little more at ease now Gibbo.

[Snappy]

So what if she woz snooping! If he's got nothin 2 hide he shudnt b bothered! I do it 2 my boyfriend+if i found that in his room id go spare!

[Gibbo]

Will you all please take a look at it and tell me what you think, and if i'm overreacting etc? http://www.pabo.com/

[Michael Hs]

Funny Smudge, but now you are in agreement with Blunderwoman, albeit not in such a forthright manner!

[smudge]

On the contrary, I have simply tried to put Gibbo's mind at ease. If you take the time to read the first reply from rja211077, my sentiments are more on his lines, without sarcastic, patronising & know it all comments. Please let this be an end to it!

[Greedyfly]

Wouldn't it be fun to maybe look together - you never know????

[Jamie Lewis]

I don't think you got much to worry about Gibbo if all it was, was some two-bob 'erotic catalogue'. He aint exactly Larry Flint. More like Larry Grayson!

[PurplePixie]

Well my 'friend' subscribed me to a porn catalogue & my very 'helpful' postman kept delivering it to me even when I'd changed addresses. I always seemed to be leaving the house just as the Postie was bringing me my mail, and just used to stuff them into the side of the door....in true form I forgot about them until my car had come back from it's annual service & was deliverd to my door by an oddly grinning driver. I then remembered the pile of (very) explicit mags & cringed when I imagined what kind of perv they thought I was!!!!

[Philtaz]

Jeezus H, I can't believe this topic is even being dicussed!