Why Did She Not Come Back

[Amena1234]

I told my girlfriend that I would not convert for her if it comes to marriage. Have told her to marry where her parents wish. I realised my mistake and then wanted her back but she didn’t come back. Why ??

[andy-hughes]

She took you at your word - maybe she has found someone else.

[rowanwitch]

As mistakes go it was a bit of a biggie, but I wonder if a same sex marriage was a step too far within her family and saying what you did have her a get -out.

[Old_Geezer]

When, after great though, one makes a life decision, one tends not to want to flip flop and open up that issue again. The decision has been made.

[lankeela]

Am I missing something? What did she want you to convert to? A man?

[bobbinwales]

I wander if there's a misunderstanding here as to what's been asked...maybe the question meaning as got lost in translation if ameenas first language is not English???

[andy-hughes]

The OP clearly indicates that the conversion is one of faith.

[Raving-Mod]

Amena1234 has posted another question similar to this one which will be deleted since duplicate questions break the Site Rules.

There is a new piece of information.

"I told my girlfriend initially i would change my religion for her."

It then repeats the details already given.

[bobbinwales]

Thanks for clarifying raving mod...I wondered where andyhugjes got his info from about 'clearly one of faith.

[lankeela]

Not sure bobb because it definitely wasn't in the first post and the second one which has been removed went up quite a while after his post.

[andy-hughes]

I deduced from the text in this OP that it was a matter of faith.

The post refers to conversion for marriage, and the parents choice, which to me infers a potential clash of faiths, most likely in an Asian culture.

[bobbinwales]

OK but its possible we're talking about a sane sex marriage here or morelikely a different meaning of girl friend

[bobbinwales]

SAME sex

[Ringlet]

When you told your girlfriend that you would not convert for her, you made it clear to her that she was not the number one priority in your life.
That is a very difficult thing to hear, and I am sure it hurt her greatly.
She has now got over that hurt, and has no wish to go back to a partner who is so insensitive to her feelings.
I must say, I agree with her.