Do I Invite Other Friend Out?

[abbeylee90]

Me and my friend are going out Friday to m&c and cinema but I just wondered if I should invite my friend who I mentioned doesn't bother with me on another thread.

[calmck]

Abbey Stop dwelling on the past. Why not use AB to be productive. Start a new thread "MY CV any advice" and post a job application for an imagery job that you would like to apply for. We can then try to help

[Prudie]

"She's also very good about keeping threads alive by throwing in random points when she seeks attention"

And that is the crux of the matter, that's the whole point, all abbey is wanting is attention. The increase in the very poor writing I believe is deliberate. Even those who support her must be now losing their interest surely?

All of abbey's questions and job help needed in reality should be answered by professionals trained in caring for adults with learning difficulties (which by the way abbey has never admitted to on here once). Her parents also must know of the situation, I'd think they'd be horrified by what abbey shares online.

[abbeylee90]

Ok it just worrying that all as she not speaking to most of her family and said only me and other friend are her true friends.

[newmodarmy]

Abbey- try adding the word IS or 'S to your vocabulary.

Ok it's just worrying that's all as she is not speaking to most of her family and said only me and other friend are her true friends.

I'm not sure now whether you're talking about- a real friend that you really care about and who cares for you.... or the one  who doesn't bother with you.

If it's a real friend, talk to her about it. Don't post to online strangers, especially when you normally ignore our advice.

[abbeylee90]

Maybe but at least it's not to people she knows or I'd be turning them against her.

[scorpiojo]

//Maybe but at least it's not to people she knows or I'd be turning them against her//

What on earth does that mean? Get some better friends, Abbey, and stop getting involved with other people's problems.

[newmodarmy]

I can help there, scorpiojo- I think she's saying it's better for her to ask online strangers about her friend than to ask people she knows as they might turn against her.

[abbeylee90]

That's it.

[abbeylee90]

Weather we will stay friend's who knows.

[newmodarmy]

Indeed. I'm not sure why you're telling us this stuff.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you've told us a few stories - even in just the last couple of days - which illustrate just how 'good' a friend this person is, and now you seem to be flattered that she classes you as a 'true friend'! 

 

[abbeylee90]

Hopefully I do then in my next job.

[newmodarmy]

Ok, I don't know what you mean. Hopefully you do..... what?

What's your next job got to do with friendship issues?

[jourdain2]

I rather echo Prudie on this thread.  We have answered ad nauseum.  Good advice has been given and ignored. I'm sure that Abbey thrives on the attention - but is that good for her?

She tells us, emphatically, that she gained a top grade in English G.C.S.E. . . I suggest that, unless she makes the effort to communicate at that level, it is better not to answer and to make her think rather harder about her posts - which seem to spin out of control.... and I'm not sure that that is good for her.

[abbeylee90]

When Scorpio said get some better friends.