Am I Right To Be Offended?

[abbeylee90]

My friend who's hen party I went to a few weeks ago. They told me it was an enclosed wedding but she invited other friends obviously one was maid of honour and invited the other one who came to hen night a few others I know from where I use to work unless her husband invited them but I feel quite hurt that I wasn't invited or even tp the party.

[scorpiojo]

Let. It. Go.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you told us that bit ages ago - and many people here said then that you should forget it and move on! I think if your life was fuller, happier, you wouldn't cling on to all these complaints,gripes etc. 

[newmodarmy]

Maybe we need to explain what 'let it go' means. Either that or tell us it's not the answer you want.

[abbeylee90]

Yes that when I had done it more recently but was ages ago now. You are right if I had what a full time, job, partner, loosing friends etc I wouldn't be commeting.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey,maybe you should go all out to get a full-time job and improve life for yourself, by yourself? If you fix one area, other areas might follow. After the last two years, surely it's worth a try -a decent try, no half measures?

[jourdain2]

neveraXword - and Abbeylee.  This time last year I was exhorting Abbey to make a new year's resolution and devote her time and efforts to getting a job and sorting out her life. We are a year on from her approving of that suggestion.

[abbeylee90]

Tbh jourd I forgot but I thought I was there this year 

[Captain2]

'I forgot'...... that I had to sort my life out!! Really?

[abbeylee90]

No that journey had told me to

[albaqwerty]

Forget about getting a boyfriend if you want a meaningful relationship,  they can smell desperation and you'll attract the wrong sort.

[jourdain2]

You did have a chance, but didn't really like it.  So let's put that behind us and perhaps change some of the targets.

It seems that a full-time job is too much for you.  But you say that 2 x small part-time jobs are too hard. So, how about looking for a long-term, part time job of, perhaps 20 hours a week?  That would be a good, solid base - but you must NOT ask for extra time off.

Are you any good with children?  Lots of schools need assistants for about those numbers of hours, especially infant schools.  Think about it.