boyfriends!!!!!

[carlyo2le]

why does my boyfriend want to go out up town drinking with 1 single friend that he doesnt even really get on with, im sat in on my own and hes out there WHY!

[winny]

It is a boyfriend thing, a husband thing and a bloke thing. Sorry.

[carlyo2le]

yep and i aint guna be getting used to it!!

[curlyperm]

what ya waiting for carly???? get yourself up off and out!!! and if he asks you 'why?' say.........same reasons as you mate! hope you have a good night ; P

[CheekyChops]

Why is one night out with mates a bad thing? Surely it keeps the relationship alive if you have at least one night aparrt to do other things?

[spudqueen]

Why shouldn't he??? Mr Spudqueen and I have always had friends that we go out with seperately. Obviously not ALL the time, but once a week out with friends without your other half there is no big deal. It works for us anyway as we have now been married for 17 years.

[carlyo2le]

he does go out im not usually bothed he goes out thursday, friday and saturday! every week, its just that he didnt have anyone else to go with so he chose to go with a lad he dunt even get on with and not in his group of friends, im not bothed now but i was peed off last night!

[Annlinda]

Dump him. He's making a fool of you. I speak as someone who celebrates their 44th wedding anniversary next month I wouln't have stood for such bad treatment.

[mycats]

Because he wants to, I assume he is an adult
Why dont you go out?
I like going out without Mr Cat, it doesnt mean anything, I hate the whole oh I let him go out" or people who moan about it.

[curiosity]

Are you thinking that he needed to go out cos this was his routine, but the usual people weren't going out so he went with someone he doesn't particularly like, rather than ask you out? I would be. Ask him why he didn't, he might have in his head that it's lads night out, but if it's a night out per se then I would remind him that you're available as his soul mate an all.

[caz247]

why exactly are you sitting in on your own?
why are you not out with friends of your own?
i assume you are very young

[McNoodle]

I'm not surprised he needs, sorry, wants to go out...

[carlyo2le]

im 21 hes 24, iv got a little boy and didnt have a bbsitter so couldnt go out or me and him would have gone out together or i would have gone with my friends.

[cartman99]

d u m p h i m

[Bohne]

My first thought was: Why can't he go out for once without you!
Reading on of course, once again taught me, to never judge before you know the whole story.
since I still don't know the whole story, I'm not giving an opinion, but some thoughts:

Does he ever stay home with you?
He seems to be out with his friends an awful lot.
Do you ever go out together?
I assume your little boy is not his son.
Do you live together?

I get the impression, that he has ample opportunity to go out and have fun with his friends. He cannot be that desperate. Have you any idea, what his reasons are for having a relationship with you?
Have you actually spoken to him and asked him the same question? HAve you suggested staying home and doing something together?

How long have you been together?

[carlyo2le]

weve been together nearlly 3 years, its not his child, we go out once a week as a couple we talk all the time and get on really well i fancied him for 7 year b4 i finally got him so i think i should stop moaning!!! since i typed the question hes suprised me with a week end away this week end to amsterdam on the ferrie im so excited we go tmoz, i think i was just winging on when i typed b4 thanks anyway to all of you x