Well, I would start to worry if my RATTER didn't notice a beautiful woman. I'd worry about his eyesight for starters! I notice beautiful women and men and we both comment openly to each other when we see someone pleasing to the eye. Like andy-hughes says, we look discreetly, not in any offensive way. The most beautiful man in the world wouldn't tempt me in the slightest, as for me it is a man's intelligence, warm heart and character that excites me and my RATTER has these in abundance!!! And as I trust him and he always makes me feel beautiful, it doesn't worry me if he looks at another beautiful woman.