Women who look at Women

[mash]

Some time back Snappy asked "Who'd Have Men" because they always look at other women. I wonder who many women would admit to looking at other women?

[zgma]

I do.

[Tweed]

They look at other women's outfits and think how it would look on them

[Yinzer]

Ok, perhaps this is a bit strange but I actually point out other women to my husband "ooh, she has a nice a**, doesn't she?" or "wow, she's really hot". I always wondered if maybe deep beneath all of this heterosexuality there is a little lesbian hiding in the shadows. I only mind him looking if he would embarass me in public (which he never does) or if I really felt that he had more than a 2 second attraction to her. If I got the feeling he was thinking of her later in the day then I would have a cow. Of course I don't drool over other guys in front of him - neither of us are really the drooling type. Perhaps snappy just felt that her man was crossing that thin line between being human and being inappropriate. Now, how many men will admit to looking at other men?

[CHOPS'R'US]

I'm much the same as yinzer which is nice to see i'm not the only one, my new b/f looks at me gone out sometimes as all the girls he has ever met get all b****y most of the time as they are jealous or the like, I admire them for it and as Yinzer said if his eyes wondered i would be a little unimpressed but i doubt very much they would

[georgit79]

I look at other women all the time. I'm not a lesbian but I appreciate beauty and sexiness all the same!

[Snappy]

I DONT!! I have too much respect for my b/f too do that even if he doesnt have the same for me!

[Casey]

I appreciate other womens beauty, but I must admit I get freaked out when women come onto me!

[CiderMonkey]

I agree with georgit79 - i look at girls if they are pretty just the same as i check out tasty blokes. I know my bloke looks at attractive girls but he knows to keep it discreet, just the same as i do. He used to have typical 'blokey' (you know the FHM 'Glamour' types)posters on the wall which i hated. I think they made me feel a bit insecure cos they were all so tiny waisted and blonde and basically what i could never be. But (and i think this is sweet)since I have been living with him during the week, he has now only got pix up of girls that i think are attractive too so we are both happy!

[FP]

I think it's natural to look at attractive people of either sex.  We look at pictures of celebrities and admire them, so if we see people out and about what is the difference?  Often when I see a really attractive lady I take a sideways glance to see if my husband is looking as well, but his idea of attractiveness in women does not seem to tally with mine!  I think Kylie is gorgeous - he thinks she's 'scraggy'!

[Miss Zippy]

As Fakeplastic said, it's natural for people to admire beauty in anyone, whether the same sex or not.  I think most of us are far more flattered by glances from other women (especially if they themselves are very attractive) because we know us females are more discerning and don�t just look at the nearest woman with big bazookas, unlike some menfolk!

[stoo_pid]

In answer to Yinzer's question, occasionally I'll comment on blokes that I think are very good-looking to my wife. She usually disagrees though! (Well, she fancies Christopher Eccleston but wouldn't give Brad Pitt a second glance - go figure...)

[georgit79]

Snappy: I think you have some jealousy issues you need to address!

[nicola_red]

I'm bi and look at women all the time. My bf and I had a conversation about Salma Hayek only last night. Lovely.

[CiderMonkey]

hmm, nicola_red, maybe another thing we have in common! My bloke reckons I am bi as i think some girls are really attractive (big crush on Angelina Jolie!)and i have kissed girls in the past. But i never really thought about it like that. I've never had a girlfriend and I find more men attractive than i do women. I suppose i thought you have to be half and half equally to be bi! Maybe i was just in denial!!

[natalie_1982]

It's lunch time ladies! I agree with Yinzer and do point them out to my fella, in a sort of "Oooh, what I'd do to have a bum like that", "She's pretty isn't she?" kind of way. However, if he said first "Oooh, I wish you had a bum like that" then I'd probably kick him(!) It's only ok to comment if I comment first ;-)

[Artemis]

I like both men and women and find nothing strange about about checking out women. As other posters have said I will also comment to my partner about there looks.

[smudge]

I have to admit to being a 'People Watcher'. I love to look at women's clothing, shoes, handbags & hairstyles. I also like looking at men's clothing & hairstyles too. I think this is quite a natural thing to do, as long as you are discreet & don't stare at people.

[twiglet4frog]

blokes opinion here....

 

Ok, there seems a bit of a difference on opinions here and i can see 3 camps,

 

 the jealous "i wont look at women because i wouldnt want my man to!"

 

Then there are the admiring "She looks like she has a great figure in that suit/Those skin tight jeans show her figure off/my man would love the size of her breasts "

 

Then there is the Bi sort "God i think i would love to kiss her and explore with her"

 

The bi one is further complicated by 3 camps

 

the bi curious (i just wonder what kissing another girl is like to a guy)

 

The Bi denier (I am not bi, i prefer men to women but i do fancy the pants of angelina jolie but so does my man so i cant be bi)

 

and the full bi (I dont care what u say, i like sex with men and women and and the differences there are between them in bed)

 

Of course if u are lesbian then my opinion can go to hell, cos the only use i am is putting the wheelie bin out each week lol

[smudge]

If we are out walking & I catch my husband discreetly glancing at attractive women, with his eyes nearly disappearing round to the back of his head, I laugh about it. He's hardly going to follow them with me in tow! He adores Kylie, so he's got pretty good taste - even though I'm a brunette!

 

[wonky]

Hey all, i am just the same i say to my husband hasn't that women got lovely............ and always point women out, my husband just looks and laughs!! i too have a big crush on Angelina Jolie like CIDERMONKEY!!!!!

I think if you b***h about women or at men for looking at women its only gona annoy the hell out of them and is a huge turn off, i would not feel funny if my husband made a genuine comment if a man or woman had an attractive feature and he too does not have a problem if i make a comment about the same or oposite sex i think it does all boil down to insecurities and also how comfortable you are with yourself and each other.

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