How to break with a girl you don't want to break with?

[ozzyinozzy]

I know it sounds wierd but can somebody help me on this issue.. How can you break with a girl which you still love but you should break?

[Doolallygirl]

You don't. Why would you want to break up with her if you still love her? If you want to break up with her then you obviously don't love her anymore? I don't quite understand?

[robunibumuk]

reminds me of a recent number one song. It's gonna burn for me to say this But it's comin from my heart It's been a long time comin' But we done been fell apart Really wanna work this out But I don't think you're gonna change I do, but you don't Think it's best we go our separate ways Tell me why I should stay in this relationship When I'm hurtin', baby, I ain't happy, baby Plus there's so many other things I gotta deal with I think that you should let it burn When the feelin' ain't the same and your body don't want to But you know gotta let it go 'Cause the party ain't jumpin' like it used to Even though this might hurt you Let it burn (Yeah) Let it burn (Ooh) Gotta let it burn Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you Hate the thought of her being with someone else But you know that it's over We know that it's through Let it burn (Let it burn, whoa) Let it burn (Let it burn) Gotta let it burn Sendin' pages I ain't supposed to Got somebody here but I want you 'Cause the feelin ain't the same Find myself callin' her your name Ladies tell me do you understand Now all my fellas do you feel my pain It's the way I feel, I know I made a mistake Now it's too late, I know she ain't comin' back What I gotta do now to get my Shorty back, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh Man, I don't know what I'm gonna do without my Boo You've been gone for too long It's been fifty-leven days, um-teen hours, I'mma be burnin' till you return, oh...oh...

[tomd]

Beautiful.

[Cheesefreek]

Come on ozzyinozzy - why do it? What do you mean? Me and Doolallygirl just don't get it.

[ozzyinozzy]

Because we can't spend time each other. We were so much busy with our own things. I did made a mistake on my priorities. She should be my priority but i couldn't made that so we are in trouble to find time to be with. Because of this problem we are stuck to spend time on phone. So we argue, and this makes both of us upset. this is the whole problem. our love is behind the shadow of this problem. so can you tell me how to forget her? 'coz my mind is still stuck on her!!! (By the way it was hard but we broke. Now tell me please how to forget her)

[Cheesefreek]

You cant't forget just like that. We all wish we had a little button we could press to turn off our emotions. But time does help. I know from experience. But if you both still love each other, then why can't you change your priorities and make more of an effort to see each other?

[keltik]

i believe above is usher - let it burn, i add this because im sure somebodys going to ask it sooner or later, other than that, i cant contribute anything more interesting. good luck!

[ozzyinozzy]

I told you, we started to hurt each other. Maybe this is better. We should have a little break and find out how important we are for each other. Actually i already realized this. She is so important for me but i don't know. There is something that keeps me away from her to make the move. This is something weird. She is not the first love for me but she was the best. I don't know I'm stuck on this situation. I guess we need time to realize how important we are for each other and set our new priorities. A tiny problem that became so big to carry. Thanks for your concern Cheesefreek. It makes me better to talk to someone.

[mesed^mylife]

y shuld u break if u still love her

[trendy]

If you truly love someone you should not split, you should work out a way that works for both of you,  you really don't know what lies around the corner, don't make decisions that you will live to regret