there are really three options:
1.buy Realplayer Premium, which not only allows you to download (as in the free version) but lets you 'burn' to a dvd.
2. buy one of several software packages that do the conversion from 'flasn video' to a format that you can 'burn'
3.visit the website 'vixy.net'.....this gives a free service to convert files from 'you tube' to mpeg4 which you can burn
I have never used it ..but others have.
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