still single.....

[Banana Boat]

Im pretty sure i may have asked this before, but i want more advise! why am i still single? i mean,. I'm 24, Female, im a nice person, trustwothy (a bit too trustworthy), loyal, id do anything for my friends or family, im not exactly ugly, and although i could do with losing weight, i like to think that there is more to me than being big. I have a good job, a car, a nice house, Yet, men just arn't interested, some even have had the nerve to call me arrogant or rude, which is the 2 things that i AM NOT! I just don't understand what im doing so wrong. any ideas? All advise apprecaited.

[beso]

You are too worried about it. Stop looking and you will be discovered. Odds are you are trying too hard.

Also make sure you know just what it is that you want and believe you will find it. The universe will guide you as it will your man. Be prepared to follow the call when it comes. The man you seek is somewhere you don't currently frequent.

It isn't about stuff but about expressing your humanity. Let it our and stop pretending the trappings of the material world are the things that define you.

[zbearspirit]

Hi. You say men are not interested, that's probably because you have not met the right man. You dont appear to be the sort of person who would just go out with anybody, I would not be surprised if you have your own 'fantasy man', someone that you would be very interested in. Unfortunately life is not like that. people have to put themselves in the shop window.

Finding the right man is not like buying a car and house. You say you would like a relationship, fair enough. You have mentioned your weight. Why. If you are conscious about it join weight watchers. Lose the weight. Feel much more confident about yourself and get out there. Believe it or not, there are decent blokes out there. Put yourself in the shop window. Give yourself a new years resolution. Lose some weight, feel good about yourself. Men will show more interest. You pick a male you like, fall in love and this time next yeear. You could have what you wont the most. Dont sit around dreaming about it, Make it happen.

[jellybaby196]

24! if i was 24 again I would go out and have as much fun as I could! And definately not worry about settling down. Why have men called you arrogant and rude? Go out have fun and forget about finding someone and they will find you once they realise what a fun person you are.

[Whoever]

If you admit yourself that you might be a little overweight, there's no harm in trying to shed a few pounds after Christmas to see if it makes any difference. Some people may judge initially on appearance. But perhaps you are just not going to the right places to meet the sort of chaps you want to meet.? Could you do some different things to spice up your social life? Take up dancing? A new language evening class? Also volunteering may be a good way of meeting new people? Your local library might have details of such opportunities which range right across the voluntary spectrum . Are there any rambling clubs around you which might appeal? If you can try thinking outside your normal activity box you will broaden your networking circle.