stupid boy

[holly coffin]

i was dumped by the guy i was completely in love with about a year and a half ago.then he transfered schools , got a new girlfriend 2 days later and right before he left, he told me he still loved me and i believed him. he also didnt tell me that he was going to leave the school. i have been trying to get him to like me again through myspace but i found out a few days ago that he is moving to colorado springs, which for me is on the other side of the country.i still love him so what should i do???????? i am at a total loss here cus im 15 and completely brain dead.

[Tichfield]

You are probably well rid of him.

You may not think that now, but you will in time.

[Ice.Maiden]

Holly hun - you sound like a nice girl, with a great personality, and I'm sorry to hear about your bf moving on. I think you should try and do this as well though. At your age, these things hurt like hell, but as Tichfield's just said, time'll heal what you're feeling now, even though you can't see it at the moment.
Try and widen your social circle, and get out and about a bit more. You can have loads of fun until you meet The One. Best of luck hun - xx

[Velvetee]

Do you manage to get up in time for school, what with being on here at this time, or is it now half term?

But don't worry, in a few weeks/months time you will have met someone else and will look back on things with fond memories, but no pain

[holly coffin]

its only 8:30 were i am.

[delsgirl]

Hi, hope all is well where you are. I just want to say that as you grow and get older you learn that you can be very FOND of people in you life, eg a reaaly good friend or relative, or even the lady at the super market who serves you everyday. And when we have intereaction with one person on a regular basis our feelings do turn to fondness, but when you FALL SMACK BANG in love you will know straight away. and its THE ONE when that person you FALL SMACK BANG in love with is also feeling SMACK BANG in love with you and you both discuss the matter or tell each other I LOVE YOU. in the meantime, you are young and shoudl experience alot of feelings some good some bad about poeple in your daily life, but when a GUY falls you know its for rwal, they dont let on unless its for real. YOu live and learn.

[mel_vaz]

Aww bless ya hun
Girlie - ur only 15 yrs old! ur still a baby - u've ot ur whole life ahead of u! It's never nice when people split up - I split with my ex over 4 years ago - at the time it wa awful, I couldnt sleep, eat or stop thinking of him - I'd cry constantly at work, when I got home even thought it was like 4.30pm I'd go to sleep cause if I was asleep I wasnt awake thinking of him. We'd been together for 2 years. I have to say that watching 'Friends' (wa collecting them on dvd at the time!) cheered me up - as well as being surounded my my friends. Eventually, about 6 months on I was happier - I moved into a flat with my friend, and then met another guy - 3 years on, we're still together, living together, and im so much more happier with him than i wver was with the ex.

Sorry to go on!!! Time does heal babe, chin up and ur not brain dead!!!
xxxx