Is it time to break up?

[bobbikay]

For awhile i've been feeling like i'm drifting apart from my boyfriend. I don't know why... i'm getting grossed out when he leans in for a kiss... and i don't feel like cuddling or anything. Also, he hasn't been treating me and our kid very good. When he's upset, he calls me names like f-ing wh0re and says things to the baby like: he's probably not even mine, or i hate u. also, he recently told me that he has been lying to me about a couple of things. I'm just afraid if i call it off, i'll feel like crap and go running back cuz im lonely... and i'll also miss some things i'm sure. I tend to be an overly obssessive person. And this may sound possessive, but what happens if he finds a new girlfriend? i'm gonna be so jealous! I know this is a cliche: i love him... but i don't know if im IN LOVE with him. Is it time to break up? :S

[Velvetee]

Go on, end this miserable excuse for a relationship. There are many decent men out there who will love you and your son.

Although probably better you work on your self esteem problems first, before embarking on a new relationships. People who have low self esteem will only ever attract creeps like your current partner.

[banjobabe]

Hey bobbikay,

Tell him you don't want to hear sorry you want to SEE sorry.

It is so easy to say sorry and then go back to the old ways.

Ask him to move out for a while to give both of you some space to decide what you really want.

BB xx

[bobbikay]

Actually, I was living at HIS house... so I'm living with my parents again now (sigh) :-(

[Ice.Maiden]

Hi bobbikay - just come on. Well it might not suit you to be at your parents' house, but honestly, I'm sure it's best for you all in the long run - x

[gallapunk]

Surely it's better than where you were with him, making you feel like dirt etc. You deserve better and you will get better, once you find your feet again. You will find happiness for your child and yourself together because you're putting your child first, so good on you. All the very best, you will be glad you did this one day, hopefully in the next few weeks, once he and his bullying ways are out of your head.