He has a girlfriend!!

[Sugar&spice]

Ok, i really like this guy; he's sweet and nice and we get on really well, i often thinks he likes me too, The problem is he already has a girlfriend. Usually in this situation i would just give up and move on but with him we really seem to connect. i usually go for and go out with guys who then dont treat me very well, so this is the first time ive fancied someone who i know isnt like that. What should i do? Give up or keep trying? Please help!

[SonnyCat]

3ight8ball - what is your problem - im guessing your his girlfriend that ppl are talking about or If not then would you please calm down
this is a public sight you know
your not helping and im use others will agree

[Sugar&spice]

OMG i haven't done ANYTHING with him, at all]

we are just mates as i have explained before

and 3ight8ball that is not helpful, no need to be so rude

[SonnyCat]

Ok firstly you have no idea if she would sleep with him or not so you have no right to say that. Secondly have you even read the other comments and what she has said? - she said that she wasnt going to do anything so to go and say she will sleep with him is pathetic as she has said she wont.
Also, if you have even bothered to look up the comments, she has said that she will move on!
So stop talking rubbish mate.
And yer, so you are friendly with you mates but dont fancy them - that is not the dam point - the point is that she DOES like him and doesbnt know what to do.
Also i dont think 'niave' is the word you are looking for especialy as you dont even know what you are talking about.

So go away and only comment when you've got the story straight ok.

[Sugar&spice]

Ok first of all, you seem like a very angry person, calm down would you!

You dont even know me so why are you saying you have no doubt i would sleep with him! Now who's naive?

Also i am 15, so i'm not likely to do that at this moment anyway.

And other people have helpfully answered my question, and as people have said you are not being very helpful, just rude.

Finally, i have already mentioned that due to peoples helpul comments i am going to back off and stay good mates, if you'd bothered to read the page.

I hope you now have the right end of the stick 3ight8ball, hope you shall be less aggressive in future.

[sir.prize]

Hey 3ight8ball - so you have moved to this thread to spew your foul words around. Can no-one ask a sensible question without you abusing them with your limited vocabulary. And using words you cannot even spell correctly? What did you say to me earlier - You know more words than I do? C'mon, you are merely a moronic little creep who relishes is being objectionable and nauseating. Grow up, educate yourself and only speak when spoken to.

[Sugar&spice]

Ok firstly, you sound like a very angry person 3ight8ball, i think you need to calm down.

Secondly, you dont even know me so why are you making stupid accusations like 'ive no doubt you'd sleep with him behind his GF's back.' That made me laugh

And by the way i'm 15, so there isn't a huge chance of that happening atm anyway

And if, 3ight8ball, you'd bothered to read the rest of the page, you'd see that thanks to other peoples helpful comments i'm going to carry on being good mates with him, but leave off on anything more. Now who's naive?!

You're not being helpful and as other people have said, its a public site so dont be so rude. It doesn't seem like you are capable of helping answer my question nicely in which case i suggest you dont comment.

I hope you now have the right end of the stick and that you are less aggressive in future.

[Sugar&spice]

SORRY POSTED TWICE, IGNORE THAT ^^^

and ive had about 4/5 boyfrinds!

Thankyou sir.prize, i see its not just me who's having this guy being offensive to them.

[SonnyCat]

3ight8ball. Again, you are being rude. Little habbit you've got going there - any change of you stopping at all?
Also you really do have to read these things properly if you want to state points in an argument - the name was Sir.Prize, not as you were saying 'Sir_dive'. Look next time and get their name right before you start accusing them of things.
Secondly, you told Sir.Prize that she was ' once again not answering the ladies question'. You didnt seem to be answering the question in your last comment so dont be hypocritical. So actually i dont think that you did 'own' that as you said.
I agree with Sir.Prize - grow up and stop being pathetic.

[Blu-eyed-gal]

alrite... calm down girls and guys! to be honest i think the advice about just sleeping with him is bad! very bad. Don't me a slag or a home wrecker!

i no this girl and i no she wudnt do that... also this guy cant b that nice if he like sum1 else wen he's supposedly in a relationship. think wat it wud b like if u went out wiv him. U wudnt liek it if he was always flirting wiv ova people like u say he is with u. seriously if he is a ncie guy im sure hes just bein friendly and if he is still in a relationship. LEAVE HIM ALONE!

[dog breath]

Legiond you are RIGHT! Thats what I am planning on doing with this girl who is after me!!!!!! Yoiur good!

[Sugar&spice]

Ok i dont really know what you're on about but hey!

And blu-eyed-gal, READ THE PAGES (im allowed to shout at her coz i know her ok! lol)

and to those people who say leave him alone, well im sorry but he's a mate so im not going to ignore him

Also i dont flirt or do anything like that, i do have self-control here! dear me

[relfy]

sugar&spice, i think you should just flirt with the guy you like, because if you try and get into anything serious with him while he has a girlfriend, it could all end up in tears. so i say just discreetly flirt with him and if his girlfriend ever dumps him, then you can go out with him.
hope that helps you sugar&spice!
and good luck!
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[ftj001]

Do not persue him while he is with someone else. Wait ur turn. If its meant to be he will be yours. If you steal him that is a selfish move and as you grow older you will turn into a homewrecker.

[ftj001]

Its ok to like him, but us women get real needy when we see something we want. Be careful! Karma is a BITCH!