you know when

[SKA]

you start something on a lie then you think oh no why did I do that coz now I have to admit I was lying isn't that just really really dumb

and if someone was lying to me about something why couldnt I just confront him and now why cant I walk away from him now

also can anyone tell me why I cant sleep now

(btw sorry if i spelt everything wrong - I JUST A BIT UPSET)

[BarryBalls]

Lying is wrong!

[BarryBalls]

Starnge!

Indeed.

[SKA]

I'm not


there not

[Rosetta]

SKA, you can't sleep cause you are angry and upset. You are upset because you have found out he is married. Did he tell you this and you purposely forgot? THat answers one question.

You are not responsible for his lies or omissions

Relationships are based on trust. Sorry to sound patronising, but you are young and the whole world is at your feet.
Take advantage of that!!!

[SKA]

I can't belive how stupid I am 'are you married?' is so going to be my first question to a guy from now!!

[BarryBalls]

And if they want to sleep with you their answer will be "no"

[Bbbananas]

I don't know how old you are SKA, but age is no guarantee against being made a fool of in romance/ love/ sex/ relationships - man or woman.

Believe me, I've been making wrong judgements/decisions and choices since 15 - & I'm still doing it 30 years later!

You live, you learn, you move on. You'll meet someone genuine and loving one day. I hope you're feeling better this morning?