I caught my wife

[RavenD]

I had a one night stand three years ago which I told my wife about 7 months ago. Four months ago she admitted to flirting with a guy at work, then 3 days ago I found out she'd been having an online affair four the past 4 weeks and was about to go away for the weekend to meet him for sex. ( as she had organized to visit her family in Wales for the weekend )

She met him on facebook and told me that she did it as I didn't give her any attention. But I'm always buying her flowers, I never object to what she wears or when she wants to go out with her friends, I do 99% of the housework and looking after the kids.

I've been completely faithful since the admitting my indiscretion and I would never do it again. Do I deserve this? Am I a bad husband ?

she begged my forgiveness which I gave, but how can I trust her not to do it again after she has obviously looked and wanted other men twice now ?

She said she wants to be with me and that she will never do it again, She has ripped out my heart again and stood on it. Maybe I deserve this.

[andy-hughes]

I've seen it squad - I may have to assume another identity from now on!!!

[gina32]

why after 3 years did you decide to tell her? and you are the one who has actually been unfaithful, she hasnt not physically anyway. i think you should sit down and talk about it, like someone said i think you are having a hard time coming to terms with your affair

[bednobs]

thats Karma for you

[Neenee]

well son you got to take the rough with the smooth, and maybe he only done her in the rusty bullit hole,