Is this worth pursuing ?

[t-mids]

I met this girl i really like while i was helping out at a careers fair at work. We swapped email addresses as i agreed to help her with her application. She smiled a lot at me and our conversation was light but professional and we smiled alot at each other. We eventually met up for a drink but never really did get talking about her application. The meet up was great, good conversation and humor, we got on really well and talked about going out to eat at restaurants from our cultures. We parted with a kiss on both cheeks and we agreed to meet again but she has cancelled a few times due to her having to work evenings in a bar as she can't find other work at the moment. She does not seem to be giving me the brush off as she sends texts saying "when are you coming down next" and is very sincere in her apologies for cancelling.

We are meeting again on Thursday and she has promised she'll not get called to work. i guess i'd like to tell her i like her and would like to see her more but understand. Will i be coming on to keen as i've hung on for a while regarding her cancellations? do you think she's interested? I've not directly told her I like her nor has she told me. What might you be thinking if you were her?

Yes and before you say it, i know, I sound like a lovesick teen but i really think she is something special!

[jno]

she sounds legit to me - obviously people do sometimes give others the brush off by ignoring emails etc, but she's gone to the trouble of replying and saying what the reason was, and even inviting you to see her. How much more encouragement do you want?

It might work out, it might not, but don't give up just yet!

[LucyThomas5]

Then tell that to her, not us.

[t-mids]

I just wanted views thats all lol !!!

[SuDFB]

As a women I think she is being legit... If she wasent interested she wouldnt even bother to say anything to you...

She probably just really needs the money therefore she cancells to work... Just be understanding which I am sure you are.... and tell her how you feel :)

Maybe help her with this application??? Then maybe she wont have to work evening and spend more time with you instead...

p.s. there is nothing wrong with being like a lovesick teen its cute and very sexy :)

[t-mids]

hey thanks guy, guess i was thinking about it too much, just needed someone to tell me !!! I can't help any more with her app, she's heard nothing back so i'll put that down to our staffing issues here. I've offered to take her away out of the capital city for some time out in the country and she's agreed, she says it sounds good and i'm very thoughtful... i'm smiling like a chesire cat, i hope it all goes well !!!

[tiscaliscam]

Just remember 1 basic n very important rule once you show u really like them Most girls/women will step on you n once a woman does that its OVER that you can bet your sweet life on Remember she need you as much as you do If she thinks u need her more she is Not for you, not worth worrying about worse is some women have that attitute all their lives never grow out of it the end result they end up on their own rule 2 if she tells u she is going just tell her where the door is 9 out of 10 she wont go but start accusong you u don't love her but she WAS going to leave when she thought u would beg her to stay NEVER BEG THAT

[sn�gs]

Got a few personal unresolved issues there tiscaliscam?