I told him

[angel21]

that we can't be together as the relationship doesn't work for me in the long term.

Then I reeled of my list of reasons and then he said that some of the things I thought he had done he hadn't and it really really makes me confused so then he went out and left me at his flat for some 'head space' and then came back about 10.15 last night where in the meantime I had cried so much I gave myself a terrible migraine and puked down the toilet.

So I told him I was ill and couldn't think straight and he said I could stay and go tomorrow if thats still what I wanted so I stayed.

Now at work looking like something that crawled out of a drain (been in the same clothes 4 days in a row)

Theres so much that I doubt in the relationship and he tells me a lot of it I have got wrong like he says he didn't cheat last time we were together but at the time he said he did and he something that he sings (hodily hodily ho) every now and then for no reason I think means he's calling me a whoare and he said it wasn't but I don't think I believe him. Plus while I was in bed last night I thought of something else - when we got back together this time he said he hadn't kissed anyone since we had been apart and then I found a pair of knickers in his wardrobe which I confronted him about and he said 'we were apart for 2 years you know' so he obviously had done more than kissed a girl.

He's lied to me but I still doubt myself

[redcrx]

bite the bullet and just do it. Dont get dragged into discussions with him, just make the break.

[yogi.bear]

angel

CAJ is right.( hope you're well, sweetheart xx)........listen to her!!

Hi to ummmm x, vibes, 4 get, liz shue x and all

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[CAJ1]

Hi yogi, hope you're ok too, I'm grand, very happy again :o) xx

You know the right thing to do Angel and you can do it! If you need someone to help you through it I am here xx

[biggerlonger]

So i suppose you tell him that you come on here and moan about him every day?

You keep no secrets?

[yogi.bear]

Caj.....Im fine thanks, lovely xxx

You sound grand in the way you post so i'm really happy for you...........(pssstt...dont tell anyone....but you're one of my favourites!)
Have a great day..........really sunny and warm here on the south coast!....off out very soon!

Angel.....i do hope you have listened to some of the great comments and advice given to you on here by good people, so you can move on and start to enjoy yourself..........and your life.

You know i wish you all the best, don't 'cha.......now wake up, sweetheart ...........and do something to move forward!

love yogi, the smarter than average bear! xxx
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[jaybailey]

Leave him - now. You're worth better than that.

[4getmenot]

no its not insinuating at all. If ummmmm meant immature theyd have put that. They were just saying you are too young for him, doesnt make you immature at all. You've got to stop looking at things how you just want to see them.

Please concentrate on yourself, from your other post I;ve just read you arent happy in yourself, in work or life in general. So ditch that bloke, and look out for No.1, You are the only one that can change your life. x

I had to have dinner the other day with the ex I wasted so much time on and you know what I didnt feel a thing and he got a praking ticket!! ha ha now thats karma

[CAJ1]

Ahh, thanks yogi thats lovely! You're one of my favourites too, always there when I need picking up and giving a shake! Its clouded over here so may be due a light shower but I don't mind if I'm working (or meant to be lol). Hope you have a great day out, think of me sat at my desk! xx