Dating - how to go about it

[thinkpositive1]

Im a single male and have not dated properly for ages, I have put adverts including pics up on match and plentyoffish but am still a couple of years down the line not meeting anybody.....

After university my friends all moved away and now am finding it hard to have a social life as it usually involves trying to get coupled up people to come out of their comfport zone.

i know people will say just get out there, but its difficult when it is literally just you by yourself looking for friends .....not wanting people to take pity aswell!!!!

[Sqad]

tp1......don't bother about a permanent girl, the effort is hardly worth the benefits.

Get a nice bachelor pad then get a woman in to keep the place clean, take up snooker, eat well and drink good wines, then get onto a Dating Agency for a "one night stand " when required.

I must say that the package of craft+ her daughter does sound appealing ;-)

[TTG]

As previously been mentioned. Join a few clubs...what are your hobbies and interests?

One place I've found is good to meet people are live gigs. Go to a few pub gigs. You can talk about the music then...its a good ice breaker. Obviously before, during the break and after are good times to talk as you won't hear each other during the music!

[cazzz1975]

or get a job in a female rich environment,one place I used to work at was a heaven for men, there were lots and lots of women there and they used to fight over the men there because there was only a couple.

[sara3]

cazzz.. on that basis, should I hang out at the local rugby club?

you know I don't DO sport!

[cazzz1975]

very muchly sara, I think BS has been marking you with his scent though, to keep the hunks at bay :)