Ideally only little ones,, big ones tend to be a bit of a problem, Honey I secretly fancy your mates husband is a bit of a no no from your man, I like to watch Shaun the sheep when I get home from work early is probably ok
My (slightly bonkers) oh asked me this morning what I would do if I found out he had been lying all these years and he was really a squirrel called Nutkins. pmsl :)
I had a secret for years didn't tell anyone, my mother my best mate no one,
When I met my husband to be I felt as if I should tell him, What happened when I did tell him? - He burst out laughing, Now you know why I was reluctant to tell anyone.....
jem.
i tell him everytime i see my very very old ex(27yrs ago)but we are very good mates now.
but i dont tell him when i see(as in bump into him on st) my other very very old ex as he knows theres unfinished business with him.he knows i will never ever stray .but why cause an argument for the sake of it.
I have a secret running away fund. In the event of a disaster, or if i accidentally murdered him, or if he turned into a monster, i would have enough money to get myself out of the situation, or go on the run to rio!
it makes it sound like o don't trust him - i really do but you can never know another person 100% (most people don't even know themselves!)
Things can change - tha't why divorce was invented!