Being permanently single

[Scarlett]

Why is it that people see being single as the lull between relationships? Is there anyone out there who is genuinely content being single, and honestly isn't looking to pair up?

[zzxxee]

is that through choice craft your single status that is?
slap my arse if i am being to nosey

[craft1948]

I turned down yet another chance of marital bliss about 8 years ago......lovely man but a bit set in his ways. My men friends are just that, friends, who are good company if you are going out to dinner, or the theatre etc. If they or me decided to pounce we'd all run a mile. I genuinely have no need for day to day company, and love being able to do what I want, when I want.

[zzxxee]

gooooooooooooooo crafty !!!!!! lol

[RainbowPrism]

Hello everyone, Im single, been single over a year now, I do miss the closeness and intimacy with a guy though, Im not very good on my own really, I am happy and independent and solvent but just 'miss' someone to share life with I suppose, I have bountiful male friends and acquaintences who would want more from me than I can give - mainly because I dont 'fancy' anyone lately lol, perhaps I am too fussy....who knows oh and definitely miss the sex however Im not one for having a 'fcuk buddy' as one of my friends once advised ! Us ladies may have 'needs' but there are limits.

[RainbowPrism]

oh and if I can add that I dont enjoy sex without the emotional connection with someone you love and who loves you in return.

[maggiebee]

Well, been on my own for 8 years. Don't mind being single but sometimes it would be nice to have someone to have a meal, walk, talk with. Not actively looking, but wouldn't turn a man down if he parachuted down the chimney.

[AlBags]

Same as Sara really ... tho the other way around, you understand!