Please, please, please, Pips1, DON'T get on here more often!!!
Don't take that the wrong way! Of course we all welcome your presence. I've simply got concerns regarding your mental state. Nobody who posts here regularly retains their full sanity for very long ;-)
I think people who post things like "well, I'm back" are either posting in triumph over a difficult situation or they have an inflated ego. I wouldn't advise seeking out a belonging need here.