Possible pregnancy boyfriend reacting in a bad way

[bambiboo78]

Been with my bf for 3 years now (known him much longer), early this month we had unprotected sex..he was completely aware I was no longer taking any form of contraception & used the pull out method despite me telling him to use a condom, now my period is almost 7 days late, he has reacted in a very immature way accusing me of being a selfish bitch, telling me I will have a termination if i am pregnant. He is usually so caring, mature & sensitive, we both have our own places are in our early 30s & neither of us have any children yet, not sure what is wrong with him, if i am pregnant i will 100% be keeping it but i cannot believe he is being so selfish, everyday he is texting me telling me to get a test & asking why i'm not bleeding yet, he's refusing rational conversation, we aren't talking for this reason at the moment. I'm in shock we were absolutely fine until i missed my period & since then he has been irrational, childish & mad!!! Know he loves me & he loves kids so what has gotten him???

[chaptazbru]

Well said Ron. I had a go at DTCrossword for being a tad harsh with her yesterday and I'm sorry now. I thought she must have been about 18/19, but she's actually 32! Unless of course it's all a big wind up, which wouldn't surprise me. SORRY DT .......

[cazzz1975]

well im glad he is aware you are not taking any form of contraception, there are women out there who decide (on their own) that they will become pregnant regardless and pretend they are still on the pill. Im glad you have the result you want bb

[bambiboo78]

Chapz i really want to end this thread now, it wasn't a wind up i have been very stressed over the whole thing, but like i said i want to stay anonymous so can we say ages aren't necessarily true, sorry you may think that's shady but i'm not someone who likes to spill out my guts to strangers in real life, i used the forum the last few days as i've been very down due to circumstances, thankfully i'm contrary to your suggestions quite mature for my age, but am not a perfect human being & make mistakes, i can be tempestuous & impulsive in my personal life & i can bite if i think somebody is unfairly attacking me, re reading my posts they were a bit all over the place & obviously out of context but i just wanted some anonymous human contact at the time, i wish you all luck & now i've found answerbank again i may keep using it. Please remember there is a person behind the screen & words can hurt maybe i'm overacting as i did put myself out there when i spilled my guts on this post. Without sounding a pretentious arse we certainly don't need biology books it was just a mistake, sex is often unplanned, i couldn't believe his reaction at the time but due to circumstances i can't go into it would be bad for him to have a child outside of marriage due to his cultural background hence i now realise the reaction. Wish you all the best in whatever you do & please can i just put this issue to bed now

[chaptazbru]

Be my guest !

DT if you come on this thread again, how's your cold today ??

[Old_Geezer]

Aye, sometimes we need to chill; the aim isn't to make folk feel bad even if opinions are honestly held ones.

[boxtops]

Lucky escape bambiboo - but I do have to ask - why are neither of you using contraception if you don't want a child yet? The withdrawal method is very far from being effective - both of you should know that.

[bambiboo78]

Yes i had the contraceptive implant for 2 years before having it removed last december, we agreed to use condoms until we start trying for children. I had put on a bit of weight with it & wanted to lose it before my wedding in july, stupid we used the withdrawal that time. I had completely regular periods on the implant & after having it removed so was worried when my period was late.