do you think he wants kids with me?

[buzzie03]

A guy that I've been friends with for a couple of years who I feel likes me as more than a friend has never had his own children. He just turned 45. I am almost 28. He knows that I want children some day. A couple of times we've had conversations about children. I just wanted to ask if you think from what he's been asking that he may be hinting that some day he'd like to have children with me.

The first conversation he outright asked me if I wanted to have children. This was when I was 25. I said yes, then told me to have them when I was still young because I woudnt want to be 60 when they were 18; and then he winked at me.

The other conversation we had I was telling him how I would raise my kids when I had them. He looked very interested and then said "so when are you having these kids'? I told him I wasnt sure but that I knew I'd be a great mom. Then he said in a really sweet tone that I'd would be an awsome mother.

He also has said to me that if I'm still single in the next 5 years I won't be happy and wanted to know where I was going to meet Mr. Right. I don't think he would be asking all these leading questions about my romantic life and look interested when I start talking about children unless he was seriously interested in me. What do you think?

[bellasasha]

sorry petal, i get the impression he is just showing an interest, i dont think it means he wants you to have his babies....if you are still confused then talk to him. if you are close then i'm sure it shouldnt be a problem

[lady_p_gold]

If you are going to have children with him then you need to improve your lines of communication !!! Just ask him outright what are his thoughts .. but bear in mind that even if you had them now he will be a pensioner before they are off your hands

[dancealot13]

Well unless he's talked about how he wants kids also, then I would assume he was just giving you advice because he doesn't want you to wait like he did, because now it's almost too late for him to have children.