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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.i think he is probably sorting himself out with another girl to move on to but doesn't want to burn his bridges until he has somewhere else to go - men are just mean like that and especially so when young (sweeping generalisation i know but i think its mostly true).
I would suggest she toughen up a bit and stop waiting around for this chap to have his fun ... e.g. she needs to get out and have some fun of her own! (don't take him back you'll regret it in the long run)
He sounds like he is calling all the shots with no thought for her. I think she needs to give him a reasonable deadline by which time, she should give up on him and move on. If they are young (18 or less?) the chances are they are indeed, too young to be "settled", and it is hardly surprising that he isn't quite ready to stay with one person yet.
Maybe she should just set him free. That usually does the trick. She should give him as much time and space as he wants- and leave him. This will, if nothing else, make him realise if he wants her or not. It does sound to me as though he has had enough of the relationship but is too spineless to finish with her. After all, he can still see her, come over, watch tv etc. But she can do better!
MOVE ON... If she stays with him this time she's gonna always think it's okay for men to treat her like that.. This will make her strong for her next relationship.. Why should he be the one to decided if he wants her now or later, She should be the one to decide whether she wants to put up with his butt or not.. If i were her I would leave. Guaranteed he will come crying back as soon as he knows she doesnt want him anymore.....