A Little Delicate, What Shall I Do ?

[silka]

My friend and I go out to lunch about every 3 weeks or so. we always share the bill. Lately we seem to be eating in very expensive restaurants chosen by her, when I suggest somewhere she often says no. My friend does not eat very much, I like value for money. Today. which by the way I chose, little knowing the place had changed hands, I sent back my meal because it was overcooked to a fault and the fried chicken itself was like 2 chicken goujons. I ended up getting soup and a dessert, because the service was slow, My friends meal cost around £13 just for the main. I am not greedy by any means as all of my friends will tell you, but I ended paying double on the bill than my food cost. I feel I have better things to do with my money. My friend eats out most days, I don't. I am not enjoying it any more. I would like to do other things but that is all we ever do, that's all she wants to do. We have to arrange it all as she has to fit me in with her busy life.I think the world of her, but I feel as if I am not in control.

[woofgang]

well either you want other friends and you take steps to find some or you don't and you don't.....

[silka]

Quite