Women and sex drive...

[kryptic]

This question is primarily addressed to women but can equally apply to men.
If you lost your sex drive, how do you deal with it in terms of your relationship? (Obviously, if you are singe then there wont be much of a problem)
Would you simply sweep it under the carpet and pretend that everything is still OK in your relationship or would you seek some sort of medical advice?
If your partner still desired you (sexually) but you were more than happy just to carry on as though everything were ok, would you expect your relationship to survive?
If you lost your sex drive, do you think that your partner would feel rejected and would you really care anyway?...

[kryptic]

Thanks for your reply cazzz but how do you have councilling if the other one wont admit that theres a problem in the first place?

[ELVIS68]

Sitting there getting p!ssed on a saturday afternoon isn`t going to help matters, have you asked her if she`s getting it elsewhere?

[joeluke]

I'd be getting some elsewhere by now

[cazzz1975]

she may feel more inclined to discuss her problems with a counsellor, if you have not tried it you shouldnt knock it really, its just about finding the right approach.

getting drunk and walking out of your kids life will not make the situation dramatically improve.

[kryptic]

lol JL,
ELVIS, I might be getting p1ssed but footies on soon, got to have SOME kind of pleasure in life....

[kryptic]

cazzz, she WONT see a councilor because she doesnt see a problem.
Agreed about getting drunk though but I wouldnt be walking out on my kids

[joeluke]

Sorry to be so blunt kryptic, I feel sorry for your situation and was being honest

[cazzz1975]

a lot of weekend dads start off with good intentions but as life moves on they can quite often drift away. its a sad reality of life.

you must do what you must do.

[kryptic]

JL, I'd never cheat on my partner and its not about sex as such but the lack of intamcy is driving me mad now. And the fact that she REFUSES to see a problem doesnt help much either

[ELVIS68]

Tell her if she doesn`t "put out" at least 3 times a week she can pack her bags

[kryptic]

I hate the term 'weekend dads'.
Dont dare to presume that I'd abandon my kids.

[kryptic]

ELVIS, you really are takin the urine now.

[ELVIS68]

It worked with me....... she was gone within the hour lol

[kryptic]

cazzz, why do you presume that men abandon their kids if they brake up with their partner? That is SO insulting.

[seadogg]

You come across as a genuine and caring bloke and what you need is to talk it through with a good mate who knows you both, preferably over a pint or three. Hope you get sorted Kryptic.

[kryptic]

Thanks seadog, much appriciated mate.

[DTCwordfan]

so who has been taken down for ten days here - pinki?

[kryptic]

I'd still like to know why cazzz thinks that I will abandon my kids though?
It must be a woman thing...."he's left me, must hate his kids as well"
F*ckin pathetic.

[sara3]

DT, pinki has been banned.

kryptic, you do have to consider how this will seem to your children.

[kryptic]

OK sara, i'll stay in a loveless, sexless, relationship for the sake of my kids then.
F*ckin great example to them.
Im sorry, dont mean to be rude but im just getting p1ssed. (my kids are away for the weekend before anyone starts about me been drunk)