This question is primarily addressed to women but can equally apply to men.
If you lost your sex drive, how do you deal with it in terms of your relationship? (Obviously, if you are singe then there wont be much of a problem)
Would you simply sweep it under the carpet and pretend that everything is still OK in your relationship or would you seek some sort of medical advice?
If your partner still desired you (sexually) but you were more than happy just to carry on as though everything were ok, would you expect your relationship to survive?
If you lost your sex drive, do you think that your partner would feel rejected and would you really care anyway?...
she may feel more inclined to discuss her problems with a counsellor, if you have not tried it you shouldnt knock it really, its just about finding the right approach.
getting drunk and walking out of your kids life will not make the situation dramatically improve.
JL, I'd never cheat on my partner and its not about sex as such but the lack of intamcy is driving me mad now. And the fact that she REFUSES to see a problem doesnt help much either
You come across as a genuine and caring bloke and what you need is to talk it through with a good mate who knows you both, preferably over a pint or three. Hope you get sorted Kryptic.
I'd still like to know why cazzz thinks that I will abandon my kids though?
It must be a woman thing...."he's left me, must hate his kids as well"
F*ckin pathetic.
OK sara, i'll stay in a loveless, sexless, relationship for the sake of my kids then.
F*ckin great example to them.
Im sorry, dont mean to be rude but im just getting p1ssed. (my kids are away for the weekend before anyone starts about me been drunk)