Women and sex drive...

[kryptic]

This question is primarily addressed to women but can equally apply to men.
If you lost your sex drive, how do you deal with it in terms of your relationship? (Obviously, if you are singe then there wont be much of a problem)
Would you simply sweep it under the carpet and pretend that everything is still OK in your relationship or would you seek some sort of medical advice?
If your partner still desired you (sexually) but you were more than happy just to carry on as though everything were ok, would you expect your relationship to survive?
If you lost your sex drive, do you think that your partner would feel rejected and would you really care anyway?...

[Mick-Talbot]

i'm gonna say.... i bet he is not.

sorry for going off topic Kryptic, keeps the thread live though....

[sara3]

I think joeluke would most likely be turned on being called an arse, which is exactly what he is ;o)

[karenmac60]

Pinki, your sex starvation is making you delusional. He strikes me as a sexist so and so who loves himself. Oh, and don't you have tattoos? Not acceptable on a woman according to Saint Joe.

[joeluke]

Awww shucks sara, thanks for that, you say the nicest things

Haven't you got some knitting to do?

[joeluke]

KM......yeah I'm sexist, so what?

Some women actually like a man with a bit of a bad streak in him

[karenmac60]

Usually damaged women with no self esteem who think they deserve to be treated badly Joe

[karenmac60]

Sorry Pink! :-/

[karenmac60]

And be treated like sh!t? You deserve better than that!

[joeluke]

Hey, who said I treated women badly??? I ain't never had any complaints

It's a fact that some women love a bar steward

[Answerprancer]

..especially ones who wear beer goggles ;-)

[Slapshot]

@Kryptic..."Blimey, never expected this response. I only asked a simple question.
OK guys, yes, this is relating to me.
I love my missus with all my heart and would NEVER look elswhere (if push comes to shove, ive always got my right hand and my imagination,...)
But I miss that clossenes. And thats what I cant understand.
Doesnt SHE miss that closness as well? "

Blimey....i could have written this, it's a very difficult situation I'm going through the same thing. I suspect my oh is more menopausal than she wants to let on but it doesn't stop how I feel but the only way I can deal with it is to keep my distance a lot of the time, which in turn makes her feel rejected but she can't or won't understand the way I feel. Hope you find a solution soon mate...so do I!!!

[joeluke]

Aaaah, love you too pinki

Have to tell you you're in a minority of one though cos everyone else on here hates me!

[Mamyalynne]

Although I like a man to be strong and manly, my life with my darling was very much built on an even keel, we were two parts of a whole.