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chizzy22 | 13:44 Wed 31st Aug 2011 | Body & Soul
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He says he's breaking up with me 'because he wants to spend more time with his mates' Has he just gone off me? We've been together a year and I thought we were really happy... which is why I'm so shell-shocked. He's 40 by the way. Any clues would be greatly appreciated. I'm gutted!
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Do you not let him see his mates or something?

He's dumping you...he's just trying to be kind about it.
Seriously, I think he's done you a favour. Let him walk, in fact I would hold the door open for him.

Like others have said, it sounds like he has commitment issues & is using this as an excuse to cover up his own insecurities.

Get yourself out there & find someone who is worthy of your time & love. You can do better than that.
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