sex

[happymeo]

How can you know about sex ability of a man without having sex with him?

[Goodsoulette]

oh dear.... i think its quite important. Like I said there isnt a man on the planet that cant learn or be trained.

<<<<<<<<cracking my whip as I type

[Supernick]

And in fairness to us men who take a battering, there's a few girls out there who could do with a spot of training. For every 'clit biter' there's a 'ball squeezer'

"You love it"

"Ow, no, I really, really don't" ;)

[Drisgirl]

Yes you do nick!!Phew that was a close typo there - freudian slip (honest!)

Goodsoulette - LOL - they love it really even although they moan:)

[Goodsoulette]

I think the moral of this story is that you should all listen to me cause I know best.....

nah not really....listen to Dris

Or communicate your likes to your partner be them male or female!!

[stevie_c2it]

Don't listen to Drizzy! When she's not 'whacked' out on meths, she's hallucinating on paint fumes.

Bless the old dear, I SAID, 'BLESS THE OLD DEAR!'

Her hearings not what it once was, shame really, hearts in the right place but....

Makes circling motion at side of head with forefinger.

[Drisgirl]

Youre just jealous cos I'm the AB equivelent of Dr Ruth-and you didnt like my comment about the size of your conk - phew just about another typo there - you know I think the nail varnish has got to me.You read me so well - but I ran out of the meths - get them on the way home - Ta!!

[Greedyfly]

Dancing is a good indicator I find, I like a guy who can dance.

[Greedyfly]

I think the moral of this story is men or women, if they arent very good TEACH them how you like it.

[Goodsoulette]

when id do that they all go euwwwww

[jason1980]

Im a man and from a man's point of view just ask him, then keeping asking "why though?" to his responces. I should imagine the ones that do it better aren't single...

[happymeo]

Thank you all very much,

I'm a traditional Asian girl. Since I was born I have hold the principle that I will only have intimate relationship with my future husband and only after marriage. Now that I'm in a Western society, I learn that sex is quite important for love... Posting this question, I really appreaciate every single answer, from your tips as well as your idea of combination between the two...

Thanks once again, you answers have helped me a lot.

[mycatis]

PMSL at stevie_c2it :-)

I have to agree with metagirl here, I have definately found that guys who are comfortable with their bodies, (especially if they are perfectly happy to be naked and arent shy about it) tend to be the most fun in bed and personally I think that's the most important thing. My mum always said to me that you shouldn't be in bed with someone if you can't laugh with them. I agree cause lets be honest, sex in real life isn't like on TV and in films, where it's all soft lighting and billowing curtains, it's more likely to be elbows jammed, hair in the mouth and funny noises lol, if you cant laugh at these things then you shouldnt be in bed with that person.

[Drisgirl]

mycatis - dont encourage him:)

Thought we women stuck together?

[Pangolin]

Buy him an ice-cream and watch him lick it!!

[TheBlob]

Giving him a survey from Cosmopolitan ought to do the trick. Or how about asking him for three references? Checking with previous lovers might be awkward, but it might save you time in the long run if that is what you are after.

[mycatis]

lmao sorry Drisgirl but that was soooo funny (but of course I'm on your side) ;-)

[Drisgirl]

mycatis - you havent seen half the posts - but I ALWAYS get the better of him.Thanks for being on my side tho - I'll return the favour - nae prob:)

[stoo_pid]

No such thing as a great lover - just great couples

[Goodsoulette]

hmmmm....... not so stoo_pid me thinks!!!