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How can you know about sex ability of a man without having sex with him?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Dancing? Sporting ability? Confidence? Not sure any of these are reliable really, and to be honest it just depends who you're with some of the time. I've come away from a one night stand thinking "God, I'm amazing", and other times thinking "That really didn't go well at all". So I'm not sure there are any trustworthy indicators!
I don't think you can tell without having sex with him because it's not to do with the man's ability, but how the two of you work together. A guy could be a sex god to one female, but leave another cold. It's all about pressing the right buttons for each other, getting to that level of intensity and abandonment and desire that can just blow your mind. But, as Drisgirl points out, if you have a snog and you feel that electricty running through you, then it might be worth investigating further.....I've never yet wanted to sleep with someone who's kissing I hated, no matter how gorgeous etc they were.
metagirl - I agree but you have to have the spark.Looks do not at all equate to anything - in fact they seem to think they have less to prove.I have sparked initially cos I'm on the same wavelength with them and then I love the sparks flying bit when no contact has been made like what kick said but you want to.
mmmm....the spark - reminds me of a guy I once had a short (he had a gf!) but amazing "thing" with. Before we even touched we would "sense" eachother when we were in the same room. he was gorgeous so it didn't really follow my "ugly guy" = "good in bed" rule - but he definitely liked sex and had a pretty good knack for it! he grew up in Italy so maybe that was it?
For all the answers above, i find myself wondering WHY this question is all that important?! If you just want a man for sex then i presume you can try him out and if he isn't up to your mark then don't try again! IMove on! f however, you are asking this question with regards to getting into a longer term relationship then, in my experience its irrelevant as good sex alone does not make a relationship last. If you were to look for a man to have a deeper relationship with than just in the sack, the sex could be worked on!