Are you forgiving?

[sexyrussian]

You can say all you like about me but one thing I am is forgiving.I have had a few ABers apologise for their behaviour since coming on this website and I have forgiven all of them.If someone had done something terrible to me all they would have to do is say sorry and I would forgive them instantly.However I think most people find it hard to forgive so I was wondering.Are you forgiving?

[noxlumos]

I can forgive anyone who does something to me, like my father beating the ***** out of me when I was a kid, but I struggle when it's someone whose hurt someone I love. If anyone ever harmed one of my children for instance there's nowhere they could run that I wouldn't get to them and I don't feel that thats inappropriate as it's all well and good being forgiving ( and I am in the main) but sometimes you need to weigh that against other responsibilities you have like being a parent. Being a parent far outweighs the need to forgive anyone and it's a primal instinct to protect your young and anyone who harms them should realise that and be aware of what's going to happen to them. That being said hat's off the people who can forgive in such instances, but I couldn't.

[devilwoman]

loopy sorry to hear you had a violent partner, me too, i mean people should get the hell out of these relationships not forgive over and over cos ot means nowt, once you're safe and have a normal life again then trully forgive in your heart this means forgive but not go back. hope i'm understood and not drivelling on lol.

[PinkFizz]

I had to nip to town to pick up something for my mum,had no change for carpark ticket,nipped in shop opposite - literally 10 metres from my car - turned round and a warden was writing me out a ticket!! �75!!!! Tried to explain I was getting change and she said tough,and she had great job satisfaction!!!

[sexyrussian]

I shouldn't do this really but....

[sexyrussian]

Over 40 answers AGAIN for sexyrussian.When will this ever stop?wahay wahay wahay wahay !!!!

[loopyc]

your right devilwoman now i am out of the relelationship i can forgive him, although he wont forgive me for leaving him but to be honest i dont need his forgiveness. sorry about your day pinkfizz oooh dont get me started on traffic wardens!!

[scruffscat]

I can forgive, but i dont generally forget, im too sensitive.But anyone touched my family, no,never in a million years would i forgive

[PinkFizz]

it gets worse - I theN stomp to the shop to collect this thing my mum wanted and it was shut! And I had only gone into town for that!! So to calm down I go to newsagent next door to get a cold drink,see a woman I havent seen for years and she congratulated me on my "teeny bump"......AND IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!

[Champagne]

Oh dear, PinkFizz, you are having a bad day aren't you? About a month back my boyfriend got two parking tickets in one day when we had a weekend away in Brighton. He refused to let it get him down and ruin the weekend though. We all know that traffic wardens are jobsworths. I swear they work on commission!

[sexyrussian]

PinkFizz this is my thread and if I ask you nicely can you please stop discussing yourself on this thread.This was a sensible question resulting in sensible debate.I do not want your story on this thread.Please stop.Thank You.

[PinkFizz]

Champers - she was just so sodding horrible about it - I swear she was smirking! She looded like a bloke anyway - even had a moustache! Only went into town to do my mum a favour and didnt pick up what she wanted,get a �75 fine and now feel fat!!

[loopyc]

but SR i thought you said pinkfizz could post her question on your thread as she had trouble posting hers!

[PinkFizz]

Hello Looby,how are you?

[PinkFizz]

Sorry,meant Loopy!

[loopyc]

sorry sr it wasnt you hope you forgive me x

[loopyc]

im ok thanks pinkfizz bit worried about neurologist tomorrow apart from that fine. hope your day gets better soon x

[PinkFizz]

You will be fine honey.He will be able to give you the once over and put your mind at rest.x

[Pippa68]

Nox ~ do you struggle with the capital punishment debate? I know I do! part of me recognises that nothing good could ever be achieved by killing someone who has killed others, and the sensible part of me knows that it isn't much of a deterrent either...BUT.

If someone murdered my child I would want them dead. And if the authorities couldn't or wouldn't arrange it then I am sure I would be taking the law into my own hands.

[Champagne]

Loopyc, you're losing the plot!!!

Just remember, PinkFIzz, that all bad things come in 3's. So you've had your quota for a while. It's all good from here on. xx Do you wish you'd wish you'd shouted at the warden now? Calling her an ugly bearded dyke? Hahahaha!

[Pippa68]

Lighten up SR ~ you are always hijacking other peoples threads.