could you forgive?

[wonder years]

i was at work tonight and reliszied just in time i.d forgotten to put on my lottery, and had to phone home quick and ask hubby to put it on, then that got me wondering, could you forgive your partner, if they forgot to put the lottery on, and you would have won millions, [ i suppose many would,nt truly know unless it happened ] but what do you think you,d do, me i cant decided on only one thing and thats how i was going to kill him,!! my friend at work said she forgive him after she pulled the knife out of his back!!!!

[laurence2]

A genuine mistake i can forgive.

Lying or cheating is a different storey tho, i would never ever forgive my wife if she cheated on me, and the same goes for liars

[naz_nomad]

Can't miss what you ain't had, I suppose ... then I'd kill 'em ...lol

[wonder years]

laurence2 i have too agree with you i hate liars, i allways taught my kids that what ever trouble they were in allways tell the truth because lying makes the situation worse and people, allways thinks better of a preson for telling the truth.

[laurence2]

Wonder years, the same here with my two boys {13 & 10} the silly bit is, that if i tell them off, they go into strop mode and say they hate me, and their going to run away or call the social services, or they love mum more than me.

Don,t you just adore the little angels lol

[wonder years]

well, my kids are 24 and 20 now and have turned out pretty good but at 45 i need to dye my hair alot so it did get a bit rough at times but now i think, when i thought they not listening they actually were.

[laurence2]

Same age as me, never had a grey hair yet lol

[wonder years]

hey laurence2 they only 13 and 10 wait till the want to go to the pub/nightclub get girlfriends, driving there cars to fast , your grey hairs will come thick and fast but its ok it will make you look more distinqused cos your a bloke!

[laurence2]

i,m not the worrying type wonder years, i,m a man with loads of confidence and very very streetwise, lets say nothing will shock me

[wonder years]

thats fair comment i think on the whole women worry more than men anyway,

[laurence2]

I think women do worry more than men on the whole, men hide it better.

Ps, hows jeff sterling country and have you had any luck finding any spanish gold ?

[wonder years]

hee well pools got beat to day jeff wont have been happy .spanish gold i found none of, were are you from again [its that middle age bad memory thing]

[wonder years]

ps dont know how long this thread will last before someone complains of to much chat, with each other but what the heck !!!!!

[laurence2]

Born & bred in London, met a nurse on a holiday romance in 1988 {tenirife} got hitched in 1991, now living in birmingham {since 1997} Train driver for a living, but used to be a pro boxer in the 80's, my user name is the name of my youngest son, but try as hard as you like i won't tell you my real name other than in boxing/sport terms people would know me

[wonder years]

we have a few good boxers in the pool the feeney brothers dave garside and micehal hunters good from by gone years we have teddy gardner [really old now but good ] and the london brothers brian and jack

[laurence2]

Nice chatting to you wonder years, but must go now, work at 6am in the morning

See ya

[wonder years]

bye laurence2 take care driving them trains

[Pippa68]

We have only ever done lucky dips for this reason...to remember regular numbers and forget to put them in would be a disaster ;o)

Seriously, does it really matter? I have probably forgiven him for worse!

[wonder years]

god you forgiven him for worse pippa68 like what if you dont mind me asking?

[beejaybee]

Would never happen as I don`t do it.

[Pippa68]

Probably nothing incredibly major, wonder years ~ he wrote off my car..a classic BMW which was very precious to me. I suppose that doesn't seem worse to some people but I had the car & lost it..the lottery is just a windfall isn't it..LOL.