Well in my book "f........ing" denotes swearing. Which is not pleasant when people are trying to offer help. You are looking for some intelligent replies. If you look back over my posts I have given you many suggestions from different angles.Your problem is that you are dissatisfied and you are taking your anger out here. The whole point of this site is that you can ask a question and see if you get any replies If you are lucky enough to get replies, you have to take ot leave them. Very often you don't get what you need, but sometimes you do. In the least, you should have the good grace to thank the people that have tried to help, and if you haven't found any "intelligent" answers, go to citizens advice instead.